If change is the only constant in life, why is it so difficult to change ? Lately, I have been vexed by this question in my own personal life in the context of people around me. I am sure, each of you have had similar experiences either within your own self on reflection or know of someone who is unwilling to change. I view change from the lens of inter relationship, patterns, connections and dynamics that are at play . You and I are wired to have a sense of self and a sense